Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
Talk of The Villages Florida - Rentals, Entertainment & More
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As Gracie and others pointed out, you probably will not be appreciated entering into an established group of players. but it's another case of having rules but not enforcing them. You can probably force the issue if you go to the top, but it won't change that group's mindset, and they will probably make you unhappy. This isn't America's Friendliest Hometown. That is just marketing. TV is your normal group of 110,000 people, each of whom having unique personality and nature, some good and some not. I know what I would do... I would go to the top and ask why this is happening, and maybe they will advise the group to follow the rules. But I would find somewhere else to play, because bad feeling between you and the group is already established, and that would be hard to overcome. JMO
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I can see it from both points of view. I am in the process of purchasing a home here. My hubby and I are still in the mode where we get up in the morning and look in the rec news to see what is happening for the week and if it sounds interesting we show up. If, in the write up, it asks you to contact someone before showing up we do that.
However, we have shown up for a few activities where there were no people, or it was a closed group. It was disappointing, but I blame that more on the rec news putting in more clubs and activities than they actually have available. Perhaps they could ask all leaders once a season to send in an update to determine if a) they are open to new members b) they have limited availabilty for new members c) they are full right now, so take them off the list of possible things to do c) they are on hiatus for the summer, with next meeting starting in <put date here>. They do seem pretty good at pointing out levels of each activity, so we don't show up for advanced when we've never done it before. And in most cases, folks are very welcoming to new people. |
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What happened doesn't necessarily have anything to do with people being friendly or not.
We lived in Santiago from 2000 - 2004. We were a very active Village. Dinner groups, Saturday bowling, golf outings, progressive dinners, driveway parties, block parties, social club, bocce tournaments, women's club and yes a game night at a rec center. This was really for the people in that Village to get to know each other & socialize. A lot of times we would talk about new ideas and activities for our Village. I love people and love to meet people, but this really wasn't an activity for those that didn't live in that Village.
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As my sweet daughter tells me often. You can't have everything in this world you want.
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I was the only person to show up at the Solitary Club. Really good time.
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Shouldn't they just list themselves as a closed club? Wouldn't that solve the problem and avoid confusion and hurt feelings?
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Have to clean house
Good answer. I never thought about that but it prolly would be a bit much to clean your house every six weeks.
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BTW, what is an "open" club? Our Three Rivers Club is closed due to room capacity, but we don't pay to use the room.
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The home owner provided snacks and drinks. Then it turned into the home owner provided lunch. Eventually, there was a mutual decision that it was a PITA to clean the house and organize lunch. Now the games are held poolside at a Rec Centre. So much simpler.
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