[nONIE]

Thankyou all for your comments and opinions. It certainly did shed new light on the subject for me, and there is probably a great deal of truth to what your saying but heres the kicker,. I am very sensitive to peoples comments and I believe that I definitely know when someone is being nasty despite the fact that I cant see them.

So.... I would like to make an announcement uhummm, that I am a kidder and a jokester most of the time and I am very sorry if I offended anyone on this board, It was not my intention.In the future I will be extremely careful about which posts I comment on.

I still maintain that being pleasant and upbeat (no matter what the subject) is the best way to go.