btk I agree.
My siblings and I instinctively worked out the estate with no hurt feelings.
My wife comes from a large family and she is the oldest daughter. My mother in law sat her down after my father in law died and instructed on what she wished giving my wife money she put aside to hold in an interest bearing account. When my mother in law passed my wife executed her wishes providing money to those her mother designated would be in greater need.
As a personal preference I choose not to get involved in the financial and personal manners of people and that included my in-laws that was my wife's to do.
|