[redwitch]

Let's face it, unless our grandchildren are being abused or neglected, we have no say on how they are raised, any more than the next door neighbor does. We can rail, we can whine, we can beg, but all that does is insure we don't get to see our grands.

Homeschooling can be a good thing, if done correctly. I've had a little of everything educationally as I was growing up, depending on the country we were in and what my parents felt my brother and I needed at that time. I learned as much in school as I did at home.

It sounds like your kids are pretty determined to raise their kids according to their standards and criteria. You can accept this or fight them every step of the way. Ultimately, you'll lose and so will your grands in not being able to see you. At least your kids care enough to keep you in the loop.