Rusty, I'd give it up. Your kids are going to raise their kids as they see fit. You can have a hissy fit about all of it, you can get the opinions of everyone but you can't stop them from raising your grandkids as they want. Unless you feel they are being abused or neglected, I'd let it go, be the doting grandparent, set the rules for your household (one of mine is phones off when visiting me) or risk not seeing your family.
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Army/embassy brat - traveled too much to mention
Moved here from SF Bay Area (East Bay)
"There are only two ways to live your life: One is as though nothing is a miracle; the other is as though everything is a miracle." Albert Einstein
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