"I do not know what the outcome of the Supreme Court's decision will be in June but I would always defer to state rights on such issues because the federal government when it chooses chooses wrong."

Good that you would go with the states decisions (37 states plus DC) that have legalized same-sex marriage. You do not have to participate in same-sex marriage - just respect it as the choice of those who do believe in it.

Same would go for legalized marijuana either for recreational use (Colorado and Washington) or for medical use as legalized in many states.

Personally, I go for the Federal government as the decision maker so we have one ruling that applies to all the UNITED States - and not 50 different laws on the same issue from 50 different states.