[redwitch]

I think reading about some of the stuff is one thing but unless you've experienced it, you're lost. It's kinda like I have a daughter and know how it feels to be a mother but I've never experienced childbirth, so am clueless when a woman starts talking about the nausea, feeling the baby kick, etc. So, I don't mind the guys reading it but just to join in doesn't feel right. (At least I asked if I could join the boys talk thread when it was started rather than jumping in and making comments and asking questions.)