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Originally Posted by graciegirl
I was going to yell at you but I reread it twice and I get what you are saying.
I know Connie and her family. I understand as much as a person who is not living her life day to day can understand. I honor her and love her and her equally devoted husband for showing us what unconditional love is.
I know first hand the mistakes that a parent of a handicapped child can make. Always walking between the lines of too much and too little help and protection and trying to get it right so your child feels some level of freedom to feel just like other people.
I have had well meaning people offer all kinds of suggestions to do something we tried and it didn't work years ago. Most of us with normal children struggle to do the right thing and usually get it right but not always.
At the very least. It was NONE of his business and Patrick was safe with hundreds of eyes who saw him nightly and would never allow harm to come to him.
It is just common sense, and common courtesy to hold your tongue sometimes. I don't know how that guy got to be a senior citizen without knowing someone first hand in a very similar situation and because of that developing a little.....respect? restraint?.
We are all peddling as fast as we can. We need to learn from each other.
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Dear Gracie, thank you again. I think this episode has really opened people's eyes to the different types of human beings living here in The Villages. And I have always felt safe here, whether I am alone with my son, or when he is with both my husband and I.
Love the Villages and the Villagers!