IMHO I think you may have a case of the "Oh my God, I'm moving to a retirement community filled with wrinklies, what am I going to do".
I told my other half that "I am never, ever, going to move to a retirement community with all those old people" - I have been here 9 years!!!
When we came looking, really looking for a home, we knew exactly what location we wanted and I never thought about the age of people in that area, or the fitness of the people in that area, all we knew was what location we wanted. We found it, moved in and met our neighbors and found they are a mix of every age group. Our friends that we actually socialize with live in various Villages, my friends are not necessarily my neighbors.
We cannot see too much difference in living here and in where we came from, except there are no children or teens living here.
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