Mutual respect
I second the idea of giving a party or having an open house. We have done that every time we have moved and it has helped to ease the process. If your neighborhood does not have a monthly card game or driveway party, start one. Try out any activities that look interesting. Try more than one.
I live in on a super friendly street, but a friend of mine in the same village says no one on her street talks to anyone else. It has been my experience that every group needs a "switchboard" - a person or people who make sure everyone keeps in touch. That person could be you, if you choose.
As far as age goes, I am 58. I have neighbors who range in age from 55 to 90. Once you get to know each other, it does not seem to make a difference. My 80-year-old next door neighbor can run rings around me.
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