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Originally Posted by fred53
but just talking to and hearing someones recommendation? Seems a bit irresponsible to me...a person should never, ever recommend someone without first hand experience. It is improper and should problems arise it is partly their responsibility. Very sad.
It is not good enough to be well intentioned, but knowing the truth of the matter is more important. More people have been harmed by well intentioned people than by just those standing by....
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Why do some feel it necessary to use someone's good intentions and good gesture as an opprtunity for target practice? It, I feel, will have a chilling effect on others who might wish to share some information.
I am sure most of us know the difference between 'a lead' as the OP gives us and a formal reference.
I am glad most people would not choose to 'just stand by' in this world of ours. Life, like love, is a bit of a risk.