[Boomer]

Originally Posted by graciegirl

Yesterday I was way overboard in my reaction to a fairly new poster asking about boil notices.

I don't know why I feel the need to always defend this place that my husband and daughter and I now call our primary residence. I never felt this way before about any of the nice places that we lived.

I was happy in those homes and in those areas and my life there was satisfactory. I never felt the need to correct folks I knew that were unhappy with how things were run or looked or how people acted. I was not interested in their motives for being negative and just continued to go on living with the ups and downs that life brings and accepting of those who were unhappy with things that didn't bother me at all.

We worked as hard as we could early on in our married lives and saved as much as we could to buy a home in a relatively safe area with a decent school system to raise our kids. We tried to improve education by voting for school bonds and doing what we could to keep our own property nice and choosing to buy in a deed restricted area so as to protect our investment. We chose to live in a city that had excellent health care to meet the needs of our daughter who was born with Williams Syndrome and needed some very expert surgeries and medical attention.

We lived and worked and made friends and did what we thought we should do with local organizations and clubs and the church that seemed to focus on the things we believed in.

And we grew older and were thinking to retire and t we stumbled upon The Villages

At first I was skeptical and unbelieving that this place could really be as nice as it was presented. I was very skeptical that people could really live and enjoy life in their later years as much as the people who lived in The Villages appeared to be enjoying it.

We bought a home here and began to be seasonal residents and I was just plain overwhelmed with the happiness and fulfillment that I was experiencing and the skill that apparently had been used to dream and build this way of life for seniors.

And I got worse and worse until four years ago we moved here full time. I now identify with this place as if it were my dream and my plan instead of a very lucky rainy afternoon that brought us here purely by accident.

I have little patience with anyone who doesn't feel as lucky and fulfilled to be here. I am skeptical of anyone who is negative about it. I don't drink or smoke marijuana so this euphoria is self induced and my impatience with non believers is my own character weakness.

I am not a hoarder or an extreme health enthusiast high on endorphins or possessions. I have turned into a terrible, obsessed villager and I want nothing to do with those who don't see it my way. I am obsessed with The Villages.

There were three negative threads yesterday started by three relatively new posters and the boil water one was when I lost it. I jumped on the poster and I was not patient or kind. I am very sorry that I wrote what I did.

I cannot change my obsession with this place nor do I want to, but I can remember that I was brought up better than I acted yesterday.

I was rude to a person for no good reason and I apologize to her for how I acted.

I will try to do better.


Have a wonderful day in The Villages.

I saw that Gracie. You are right. It was over-the-top. But I give you credit for your public acknowledgement and apology.

Earlier this week, you "chastised" me for quoting Warren Buffett. But I knew you were kidding......I hope. But I am pretty good at reading between the lines and I kidded you right back. Besides that, I am one who can confidently embrace that old line we hear from kindergartners, "You are not the boss of me."

I have seen a few trolls on here over the years. But more often I have seen new posters who must feel eviscerated after sincerely having posted something that might not be what others want to hear or acknowledge about TV. -- When I see this happen, I cringe.

But now, here you are, seeing it, too. That is good. Do not forget that you have a fine wit that is so much fun to see, and you can be quite helpful, too. That is the Gracie who adds so much to this forum.

But as far as that other behavior goes, and as much as I do not believe in written punishments, and never, ever assigned one, I must do so now.....

Please write the following sentence 5 times. Yes. Just 5 times. You do not need to write it 100 times. You are smart and can catch on fast when you want to.

Please write: I will try really, really hard to stop frisking posters at the door.

(And now, even I am debating whether to hit send or not. But I think I will. I must leave now to have my roots done. I hope when I look back, I will find a smile.......and maybe even a completed assignment.)