Leave the genders alone. God made two genders and HE doesn't make mistakes. If you aren't satisfied with what you are, sorry but you can't reverse it. Like someone once said "you can put lipstick on a pig, but it's still a pig." That young boy should be sent to counseling so he can learn how to deal with his identity crisis. If he can't assimilate with the other children, then his parents should take him out of school and home school him.