Justjim....what is "more than enough"? So many kids now spend their $$ on wants rather than needs. If the last check I write doesn't bounce, I miscalculated. If you feel you have to "buy" your kids now what makes you think they will take care of you later? They will find you an affordable nursing home and be too busy to visit. My mother is in assisted living and during the 3 to 4 days a week I visit, I see very few other visitors----sad! I NEVER asked for $$.....I did without!!
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