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Originally Posted by graciegirl
You are right. It is all how it is said. I think that this has a LOT to do with how we were raised and where we lived in our childhood. I think some people are generally far more direct on a day to day basis. different than the people who I grew up with in Ohio. Probably not different in their heart but in their style of speaking..
Just as Salybow said, it is a matter of diplomacy and tact and some can tell people to go to Hell and make them look forward to the trip.
What I hate among posters is the changing of their names. There are those who have been kicked off and continue to come back under a new name. It sometimes takes awhile for the Admin and moderators to find these returning troublemakers because there is software that can disguise a computer address. For the troublemakers, it is a game.
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Hate seems a little harsh. There are many reasons people change their names on web sites. Some as simple as picking a name that does not fit them or even misspelling. I would recommend paying attention to what people say and not what you may think they mean. I prefer to look for the good in everyone rather than make snap judgements of others."