Too hot too cold is also a refrain heard between husband and wife.
The real problem here is that we have too many people who seem to believe that if you raise an issue its because you are always negative, nothing would be satisfactory, or would complain just to complain. Ironically, these same people, who believe they are taking the high road, seem to be unaware of the fact that they always complain about the people complaining or concerned about some person place or thing.
Many of the concerns are legitimate and deserve an airing out but you have these self appointed guardians that will cut them off in a New York second and that's fast
The guardians could at least ask for a clarification before condemning them.