Thread: Rudeness
View Single Post
 
Old 01-08-2016, 09:01 AM
golfing eagles's Avatar
golfing eagles golfing eagles is offline
Sage
Join Date: Mar 2015
Location: The Villages
Posts: 13,489
Thanks: 1,248
Thanked 14,533 Times in 4,793 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by PennBF View Post
I think the OP was venting some frustration at the lack of consideration by a group which may or may not be true. As I understand it we are now a serious "Vacation Location" and how many of you have gone on vacation with the attitude you paid for the room, etc. and are entitled? I believe there is a lot of this here. Many don't know how to use the circles when driving and their confusion leads to those who know getting upset. Then we have the natural angry person and the villager's are not all "happy people". A very good illustration of this are the posters to the OP's complaint and are the ones who try use it as an excuse to voice wise cracks, awful humor, and just being rude. Doing this is a fact that the persons are angry and release this anger through attempts at putting someone down. What is ironic is that the person is part of the rude being discussed and my bet is most are year around residents as are we. Net: We should respect the person who was upset and if we disagree be respectful in responding and not demonstrating the same attitude and negative behavior as being challenged. Of course there are "snowbirds" who are angry as there are villager's. I believe it is safe to say that "wise cracks" and poor humor is just another form of anger.
You may very well be right, in some cases. But then the question becomes WHO decides what is rude, WHO decides what is poor or awful humor, and WHO has the psychic ability to ascribe intent?