This is the sort of thing that rubs most all the wrong way. When I sit back pondering or fuming over the little issues in life it only does me more harm. I take it as a challenge to find a way where I can feel like a better person inside when I walk away from the challenge at hand. I usually learn something if I happen to handle it well and both parties are still smiling. I am disappointed in myself when I let them get the best of me. You are more the winner when you can grin and bear it. Oh so hard to do but it does get easier the more we try and are rewarded from within for doing so. I have to try harder since I am no angel.
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