Prizmz,
Having worked on my high school reunion committee, we were always on the prowl for free people search tools.
Here's the one I used the most:
http://www.daplus.us/
Under find a person, enter name and state....the results list shows you city, approx age, if known, and is a good starting point. If you click on the view details link next to a name it will show you their address history. If there is a listing in white pages it'll pull up a phone number.
I see several Nancy Friedman's in CT.... one who is 45 and another who is 69.
Happy Searching!!!
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Maryland (DC Suburbs) - first 51 years

The Villages - next 51 years