Ok well here goes . One of my daughters was an International Figure Skating Competitor .
Most of her coaches , choreographers , music producers , costume makers ,
and off ice ballet coaches were Gay Men . Some of their names most people would recognize .
I spent may a long weekend in many rinks in the US and Canada sitting in the stands with them .
What I learned was that Gay Men do not care for Lesbians or Transgender people . When I asked them about the LGBT " Movement " they all said the same thing " political convenience " .
And believe me they use some very derogatory descriptors of any group of people who are Gay Women , Trans-sexual and as they call us " The Breeders " .
That was behind my point but hey what do I know ? As you said I am an " IDIOT ".
Because in your life experience you know far more than me .