My daughter knows self-defense and also carries a gun, legally. She's fine. Her daughter is a national competition wrestler, so I bet she is fine too. But, my wife is small and 72, and never suggested that she was equal. And I had better hold the door open for her, or I will incur her wrath for a long time.

Just the same, I'll protect the women whether they ask for it or not. I never did like scumbag perverts. So, if you need to go, it better be in the restroom suited to your plumbing or someone else may feel as I do. And if you are in NC, no one is going to complain about a gender confused person getting a little counseling in an assertive manner. And if I am waiting at the door for my family to come out of the restroom, there won't be ANY males entering, as long as I can tell the difference. And in most cases, you can slap on all the makeup you wish, and I'll still be able to tell. I don't have any problems with a tranny entering the male restroom to use the urinal. I've seen a lot of crazy in my lifetime and that isn't going to bother me.

Just my view on the issue. What a person does in the privacy of one's home is their business. Involve me or mine and it may be a totally different matter.