[samhass]

Dear Bare, I am far from trim. I just wear big clothes. No tight pants, shirts, dresses or shoes for me. I want my body unrestricted in case some wonderful dessert calls my name.
At our age you don't want to be hyper thin. You need something to plump out the wrinkles.
Furthermore, a good hot fudge sundae brings more pleasure to me than someone briefly thinking I'm hot. As long as Mr Samhass is happy with me and doesn't kick me out of bed, I am a happy woman.