SOunds like what my husband dealt with....he kept asking if I wanted to see The Villages. NO was my answer all the time....I didn't want to be around a bunch of old f**ts.....LOLOLOL. Well, we came to Florida to visit my son and his family and finally I relented,,,a trip up to see what this place was all about was on the agenda. We've lived here for 10 years now...

. (I was the one who told the Salesperson to find us a house with specific requirements, we weren't in a rush....the house was found, we retired and moved from CA without batting an eye.
Enjoy your visit...and it won't hurt to bring a checkbook ....