thank-you If I hit a nerve and that was the last straw I'd feel terrible. I want to believe that I am talking to a twelve year old, or a bunch of twelve year olds that's just jerking around old people. I can't help it if I feel sorry for people less fortunate then me. That's the way my parents built me and my sibs. And that's the way I built my kids. The hard hearted on this site would feel very uncomfortable with my extended family.