Exactly. The hard truth of the matter is gays in particular have no skin in the game. Blacks do.

I can tell from across the room if someone is black. BUT, if you do not TELL me you are gay (and are not more feminine than a school girl)...I CANT TELL.

Best way to not have your deviant sex used as a tool to judge you...DONT TELL ME ABOUT IT!!! I hold those who do to the same standard as adults who pick their nose and eat it. They are typically low self esteem attention whores.