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Old 06-24-2016, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by redwitch View Post
From what I've read, the victim was very uncomfortable around this man and did her best to avoid him. She was in no way at fault. Heck, even if she had slept with him, she was not at fault. Stalkers can develop a "meaningful relationship" with their victim by almost any actions of the victim. A simple hello can be interpreted as "I love you". A tweet about the weather becomes an invitation in the mind of the stalker. To even remotely blame the victim is, at best, patently unfair.
Stalkers hear what they want to hear, not what is said.
I feel very sorry for this woman, caught up in some man's aberration.
There is nothing fair about the situation.
If I were her, I'd definitely be moving, to get some peace of mind.
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