If I showed up at a club, and there were no open spots, and no one offered to let me squeeze in, I would just leave. No harm, no foul. I sure wouldn't be offended. I understand long standing groups that like to get together with themselves. I would not make a scene and get management involved. I would just figure all the spots were taken, and I need to plan better if I really want to participate. This seems a bit self centered and an entitled attitude. Why in the world would you want to push yourself into a group that isn't interested in having you join them?
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