[redwitch]

[QUOTE=graciegirl;1247684]I have heard that the really, really, really good Mahjong players are not very excited about newbies. I understand this. Many people watched their moms play Mahjong as infants. It is practically in their genes. I was raised on Euchre. We taught grandkids to play it at very early age.

I wouldn't like to join an established group that didn't seem glad to see me, or break up a group who usually plays together. I agree with Outlaw on this one. No way would I get the staff involved. I would find another place or group or play another game. I am never happy if I win by intimidation. Some people thrive on it.[/]

I agree that I wouldn't force myself on a group such as this -- they'd make darn sure I knew I was unwelcome. However, I also believe groups like this have no business at rec centers. Every event should be open so long as there is room, a person has the skill level as posted in the rec center list and a person can be accommodated and every new person should be made to feel welcome. If your group can't do this, then find a venue where you can play privately.