[Rokinronda]

I meant a gate that opens with our entry card. Not a solid fence! Also, I would never change my granddaughters name to get her access beyond 30 days. 30 days is the rule. Lying is Lying. It doesn't mean they can't visit more than 30 days, just can't use the amenities more than 30 days. If everyone broke this rule, our quiet retirement community would not be quiet. It would be full of children everywhere. Your friend has to live with her decisions. You live with yours. I live with mine with peace of mind and a sense of doing right. Friend or not, I would let her know of my disapproval. But I guess you don't disapprove or care.