Dear OP,
Please do not dwell on this club thing. Please do not take it personally. Just look at it like this...........
TV is the world's biggest high school.
It's crowded.
We are
allllllllllll here...........
Not only the Queen Bees and Queen Bee Wannabees, but also every other version of high schooler there ever has been or ever will be.
Proceed accordingly.
You will find your way.
Sincerely,
Boomer