There are always more than one solution.
There is only one political forum in town.

When I was a kid the saying was "Lump it or leave it." That meant put up with it or leave it. If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen was the adult saying.

When I was an adult someone changed it to "Love it or leave it."

That is very different. There is no middle ground there, no other solutions.

Maybe that's the difference between the two groups here.