Sorry you thought my saying a joke was not funny was whining. Not sorry I made a comment about it.

I like wiw a lot. She's a great person, intelligent, fun, kind, generous of spirit. I didn't like her joke. I have a tendency to speak up when I think something is hurtful. Suggesting that people drive at night without lights because of voter preference was harmful to my mind. I'll also speak up if I feel a joke is sexist, prejudicial or just plain mean-spirited. It's the nature of MY beast.

Oh, and wiw ..... HUGS!