My Bride has educated me over the years. She always reminds me, "You don't know what is going on in their personal life." Could be a bad day, week or even a year.
This always slows me down and I'm less likely to go down to their level. Sometimes you just have to let people live in their sad world.
ToTV generates ideas and opinions. Sometimes spicy. Just remember.........it's usually just an opinion and being unkind is much easier with you can hide behind the internet.
