Well, I went on my quest for the aforementioned helpful thread. But it is not exactly what I remembered. So what ever is?
Anyway, that discussion was about age as a barrier to social interaction. And as usual, I began to wax a little philosophic in my post that's in there.
But you may find something in the link that could be helpful.
I think many who are contemplating a move, no matter where, have concerns, for various reasons, about establishing a new social network.
Good luck on your journey, NJblue. And I hope this helps a little, even though the discussion of social aspects is in a slightly different direction.
And here's the link:
https://www.talkofthevillages.com/sm....html#msg53144
Boomer