Oh, my dear. Please just continue to be vigilant and use the senses you were born with. Hopefully, this man will be looking to live his life in a low key manner away from kids. Not knowing the first-hand story, I find it a dicey situation and I am saying that I am not quick to judge him without merit. I suppose I would need to know the entire story before I formed an opinion of any sort. Right now, though, I would suggest that YOU go with your heart and if you have developed a 'hi and bye' relationship, so be it. if you have a 'come on in for coffee' relationship, you might let him know that YOU are aware of his record. It may be awkward to suddenly shut him down if you have him as your neighbor and you are friendly. Use your heart and don't fall victim to the emotions of others. Use YOUR best judgement.
Tough position to be in. As Gracie said, I am sorry.
All the best.....
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