[JoMar]

As I read the OP, it seems the issue was a personal choice and had little to do with the plan. Her rant seems to be about her satisfaction (or lack of) with the surgeon. That is her option, and her plan gives her more options. But just because it doesn't serve her individual needs doesn't mean it won't work well for others. We all have choices, and not sure why the OP believes she can try and slant those choices. It might be a revalation, but we are all aduilts and are capable of making our own choices. Do your thing, and let the rest of us do ours.