Originally Posted by Guest

No, you did not. You gave a rough outline and I followed up with some detailed questions that would illustrate it is more complicated than your statements.



So your sister married a wingnut that liked to speak in acronyms, and loved the attention of others. It took her 20 years to discovered that she could not change a leopards spots...20 years most likely is due to codependency, she will most likely be attracted to another narcissist. If you post a picture of her, you might find someone on here that would be glad to help fill her void... ;-)



All our parents worked hard and grew up with struggle...what about our children? Can they work hard enough to pay for all the help we have given to the less fortunate than you?? I hope your dad is still around, ask him if he wished they had taken less out of his paycheck so he could have helped his own family more.



You have no idea what my values are, you might wish to rephrase to "I assume" in lieu of "Obviously".
Yes - you did elude to some of that, but then you threw out a blanket of 3-5 years for the woman that is a poor judge of men and a 1-2 years for the person that was looking for a job.



I am Agnostic, so paying MORE taxes so others don't have to support themselves is not a indicator of me being a better person. Feeling sorry for someone to the point that you hold them back in life, is not helping, it is more of that codependency stuff.