Originally Posted by graciegirl

Bob,

About ninety nine percent of what you type is terrible put downs of others.

It may not be obvious to you, but it is obvious to most people who have lived more than five decades, held a job, never got arrested, managed to keep long relationships with sexual partners and haven't distanced many family members that you are not, nor ever have been very secure.

You have issues where you aren't very comfortable with the opposite sex and you seem to want to sissify many male posters. You mention your single digit golf score, say your partner is very beautiful and wears stiletto heels, used language not acceptable in most venues around here with either sex present and attack almost all of the time. You post on the regular forum like some knight in shining armor.

You would like to be taken seriously and have lots of people in your friends column and just be happy. I can't see that you drink excessively, because your behavior is much the same in the morning or the evening.

Every single one of us on this forum and every single person in the world has pages from their book they don't want read aloud. As we age we reap what we sow, but we still have an opportunity to find some happiness inside of ourselves. Some do it with religion, some do it with hanging out with friends, some drink with friends or drink alone. And some just continue to pick the festering wound.

You might be surprised at the people you routinely slash at here. Most of them would be willing to get to know you better and see how you talk to them in person. We all have fewer years ahead of us then we have behind us.