It is honest and fair...nobody on here is above ridicule. Look at the crap Rockface is giving Rubi because a link was not provided. Look at the crap (unt is giving Gracie because she asked a question about someone's family.
Possibly you got "honest and fair" confused with "safe and nurturing"? I would suggest the ladies only forum for that, but you get 3 ladies together and 2 of them are going to gang up on 1 lady (its their nature).