I think it is human nature to care for your own first so that would be normal but for your own family to be the only one you care about then why do you mix it up on this forum constantly. Seems you would prefer to be isolated with your family in a remote location away from people because you don't need them or care what they think. I'm just guessing and since I've dabbled on this forum even my formation of a sentence has been questioned but I would take a wild guess that in your best interest if you really feel like you stated and you raised the family that you care about exclusively I wouldn't give them power of attorney if you lose consciousness and they follow your way of thinking your a gonner. They will be thinking about themselves first as per the mom or dad's example dependending on whether you are a man or a women. What a great example for a family. No wonder the world is in such fine shape. Sleep well.