I have been here 4 years and still love it! It's not perfect but darn close! Their will always be one or two grumpy's that will complain about something but could 120,000 to eventually 150,000 people, be wrong?
I don't know if bringing your mom would work for you but it's a nice idea.
It's as close to paradise without the dying part.
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"It doesn't cost "nuttin", to be nice". 
MOM
I just want to do the right thing! Uncle Joe, (my hero).