Judge Not Lest Thee Be Judged
This topic of residents kids moving in with their parents has been debated as often as speeding golf carts and dog poop. And it is with the same disdain and in a circular discussion.
Too many posters seem to take the high moral ground which denotes arrogance and arrogance is always accompanied with its sister ignorance.
"No one knows the trouble we sees, no one knows my sorrow."
People on this forum have no idea why adult children may accompany their parents? I am sure it is for a myriad of reasons. No one stops and thinks about what those parents are going through or why.
Too many condemn them for lack of parenting skills and they haven't got a clue what those folks are dealing with each day.
Too many make the lazy connection and hence assumption that if they are under 55 and village residents well then there some resident's adult kid who is not so adult and causing trouble in Paradise.
How many adult children living here with their parents are never seen or heard from and living quietly here?
How many adult villagers have been the topic of salacious gossip because of sex in the square, drug charges, shooting up someone's home, etc etc etc.
Judge Not Lest Thee Be Judged.
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