It doesn't take a brilliant person to see that you have had little success with real friendships and real love with warm and intelligent women.

You do realize that most of the men here, there and everywhere are great people who enjoy the company of both genders? They feel comfortable with women and women feel comfortable with them. Sometimes they bond for more than fifty years with the later years being sweet and good in different ways from the young more passionate times. They raised a family with the woman they respect and enjoy and truly like watching their children respect and appreciate their mother. There is much good in real love and real respect and connected family. Passion is beautiful and so is mutual love and respect where the one plans to outdo the other in kind ways.