[graciegirl]

I believe that people either or born with or develop a certain personality that either feels uncomfortable with or invites confrontations. I think that some have a cycle of parry and thrust and then run. You can easily see it in small children who when you are on the phone say, Mommy, Mommy and then cry and then push a vase off or throw something or do something negative. That is quite normal but some people carry the need to push the envelope and get "peoples goat" well into adult hood. Most of us know when to stop and walk away. Some people don't.