[benj]

Peazoup,
From my point of view. I'm really conflicted. I was married young and for over 30 years. Many times I thought being single or alone would be just great, but being single now for over three years I'm not so sure. Several people in tv have told me you don't marry you just live together. After reading all the prenup stuff on totv I guess maybe their right.It must be more complicated than I thought. But for me ,I hope I can find someone to share what ever time is left for me. Married or live together who knows. I had a best friend for 37 years and even though we bickered some we each knew the other would be there for them, and wherever we went we where never alone. My point of view is from a never divorced person.
From a selfish point of view. Cancer took 18 months to take my wife. I quit working and stayed home with her. I went to every Dr's appt, every chemo,every operation,a stem cell transplant, and was holding her when she passed. I'm proud of that, and think that was important, and i hope that when my time comes there might be someone there for me.
Besides that I think men need someone there to remind us what jerks we are sometimes.
And peazoup NO CASSEROLES ?