[njgranny]

Rhonda, You're right that it's probably not worth the tension. Good luck to you in all of this.

Some advice I'll pass on for anyone having children and making a will - use an attorney as the executor. It saves so much hassle for the family, and the best of families will have tensions, etc. at these times. My mother did that and the small cost for the attorney was worth every penny not to have to handle it ourselves and, possibly, get into family squabbles.

Jan