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Originally Posted by Fredster
I think that getting all or most of your feelings of self worth
from a job or work is a mistake, that will make retirement
hard to deal with!
Many years before retirement I lost a job that I had for many years, and it took me quite awhile to land another.
During the long time I was out of work I came to the
realization that I was still a useful, worthwhile
human being even without a job!
I also realized there were other ways to aquire good feelings about your life, such as hobbies,
other interests
and even helping others!
One big thing that I personally feel helped was, just prior to retirement asking God to help and guide me to
find useful and healthy activities to fill the free time I would have!
Then, keep an open mind and try different activities!
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Excellent post, and IMHO, the highlighted section is the real key. Helping others has the ability to not only alleviate depression, but can often give one purpose in life.
My husband and I recently had the discussion about what we think our retirement life in TV will be like. We've already met many wonderful people and know we will not lack for friends or things to do, but we are realistic enough to know those 2 things alone will not completely fulfill us. We plan to look for opportunities to be of help to others, whether inside TV or out, in order to complete the circle so to speak.
Hoping you find joy in your retirement, Tomcat. It appears as if you are seeking direction in all the right places.
