You can't see where you are heading if you are always looking in the rear view mirror. Give yourself the gift of a reasonable time to adjust and move on. Only entertain thoughts on a positive future...if those nagging 'rear view mirror" thoughts creep into your head....shoo them away with thoughts like "I don't have to get up at 5:30 am any more" or "I can read a book by the pool for hours if I want to" ahhhhh....so nice!
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