Raising one's children to not expect anything except for their own work efforts, has been a barometer for me.
To have kids with a sense of entitlement is a false sense of being fiscally responsible.
A car bought is taken care of more so than a car given.
BTW - I agree this should be moved to political.
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"It doesn't cost "nuttin", to be nice". 
MOM
I just want to do the right thing! Uncle Joe, (my hero).