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Originally Posted by ColdNoMore
While not from the NE, I too was surprised when I learned that this southern saying...is actually a huge putdown. 
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Actually. Bless your heart can mean that you are wished well, or wished to hell.............and manners are great tools to keep you from smacking someone in the mouth when they so need it.
And sarcasm is sarcasm and usually funny no matter where you hail from. Common sense and a sense of humor can open doors and hearts everywhere. Sometimes a wink is a help too.